When you have been in a serious relationship for a long period of time and then it comes to an end, the aftermath of it can be good and bad. You may be bitter and hurting depending on the dramatics that led up to the break up or, you could just be happy to be free of a situation that held you down. I was in a relationship for six years and I still have no clue what to think of the changes that have occurred with my own personality.
In a nut shell I'm in that mindset where I know what I want...what I don't want...what I will tolerate...and what I won't tolerate. It's that simple, at least to me it is. To others, they may interpret that differently. I just don't waste my time with situations that I don't see going anywhere. Rather I don't waste my time OR the other persons time. It's just a massive change when you get back out into the single world. So many games are played by both sexes. It's annoying as hell. You see someone...you talk to them...they try to figure you out with these childish methods that are so frequently used. I don't have time for that shit. Let's be grown. A lot of what's on my mind right now has been said in previous entries but...DAMMIT!!
I run into ladies that are damaged goods that still reflect on their past and want to tell you why they are they way they are, and why they have this unconquerable wall up that God himself can't climb. So....what's your point? Good honest men have endured the same pains and hurt feelings. It's just as hard for us to get back out there as well. Let's talk about right now...and later on...and the positives that are going our lives. Allow me to ask you about YOU and YOUR goals. Ask me about my family...my relationship with my parents. Ask me about what I love most about fatherhood. These are things that should take place amongst grown people.
Peace~&~Love
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