Valentines Day....cards....candy.....teddy bears....roses.....whatever.
I don't get why one day out of the year is designated to focus on the love you have for someone. I'm not knocking those that actually like to participate. What woman doesn't like receiving the things that I just stated above. I guess my approach is just different. Love the people that you love...show them you love them...practice the love you have for them EVERYDAY.
Holidays anymore seem to bring a sense of obligation to most. A feeling of expectancy. To which causes more stress than anything else. Look at Christmas. Me personally, I just enjoy that time of year. From the start of fall to the end of the Christmas season is what I like. Simply because it brings families together. You see the ones you love, eat more than you normally would (well some of us), and you just feel calm. At least that's how it should be. For others it brings an amount of financial stress that drags them down more so than it does build them up.
At work I here a lot of men pout and dread the fact that they HAVE to go and get something for Valentines Day. That kind of ruins the thought behind the whole holiday does it not? In the first place I would think that a women would like similar treatment that they receive on V-Day several days a year, not just one.
All in all fellas....ladies.....Love the one you are with, whole souled, with your whole heart. Not just one day, but everyday. Love effortlessly, without regret, and without obligation. A mans quality time, attention, and affection on a consistent basis is really the best gift that you can EVER give a woman.
Peace & Love
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